Friday, January 28, 2011

The Homeschool Mother's Journal - 1

Sue at The Homeschool Chick has started a new weekly meme called The Homeschool Mother's Journal.  I think this is a wonderful way to review our week, see what's working and what's not, what we've done and where we've been!  If you'd like to join us, hop on over to Sue's blog and leave your link!

In my life this week...still dealing with this upper respiratory infection!  No one has been allowed to make me laugh...because laughing begets coughing....and coughing begets the possibility of hacking up a lung...and that's just not good no matter how you look at it!  I'm hoping that the coughing will be over soon...it's wearing me out!

In our homeschool this week....we really had a rhythm going!  We didn't fight.  There was no yelling, crying or fit pitching!  We all had fun working together! There was a fairly heated discussion over the proper way to print a capital "J" between Dan and Nathan.  Although I kept my mouth shut (because it was between them), Nathan was correct.  We had age appropriate discussion about abortion and we prayed for all mothers and their babies.  It was a good week!

Places we're going and people we're seeing...I wanted to attend the Stand for Life in front of the courthouse in downtown Jacksonville, but I had an MD appt and couldn't be in two places at once.  So, instead we spent a few minutes in the Adoration chapel.  Everybody was quiet and courteous!  I think we'll do this again!  Dan took the kids to the zoo on Thursday.  They had a close up encounter with a gorilla they call "Bubba" who is 16 years old.  Apparently, Bubba was very interactive and animated with the kids!  I wish Dan had taken a picture!

My favorite thing this week was...sitting around the dining room table with the kids, drinking coffee, discussing our lessons and listening to their laughter! It was cold and rainy outside, but we were warm and cozy inside....together!  NOTHING makes me happier!

What's working/not working for us....I've begun to think about next year and what curriculum we will use.  We're currently using CHC and while I really, really like it, I'm also getting bored with it.  I don't know, a lot will depend on whether or not I continue to work 3 days a week.  There are 2 homeschooling conferences this summer that I plan on attending.  Perhaps something will feel right then.

Homeschool questions/thoughts I have...The art class with the city that we paid for at the beginning of the year fizzled out.  For whatever reason, the teacher flew the coop and now we don't have an art class to go to on Thursdays.  Because this happened right before the holidays, I didn't think much about it.  But now, I'm realizing that we need to be doing something to foster the creative side.  I need to come up with something.  Suggestions?

A photo to share...



I am totally amazed at how my lettuce is doing!  I will get another bunch cut this weekend!  It just keeps growing and growing and growing!  The kids love to check it everyday!  Look who's watching over it!

Thursday, January 27, 2011

Prayers Please!

I'd like to ask you all to remember me in your prayers over the next several days.  I'm scheduled for my re-staging PET Scan on February 8th at 7:30am.  As it gets closer and closer to the day, my anxiety level slowly increases.  In addition to that, I have not been feeling well lately and whenever I experience new or strange symptoms, I'm always a little wary.

I'm hoping that the problems I'm experiencing right now are medication related.  If I could just learn to deal with issues as they come, I'd be a lot better off.  Instead, I do my best to live in denial for some things and just pretend that everything is fine.

I'm sure that part of the reason I'm feeling so poorly is that I'm not sleeping well.  I've always been a night person and it seems that I'm still awake after midnight most of the time.  My husband thinks that if I could just GO TO BED, turn off all the lights and the TV, I might be able to slow my mind down enough to get some rest.  I know he's right....but habits are hard to break, and, a girl with panic attacks has got to do what a girls gotta do!

Some other factors that are contributing  are....my weight, stress, too much caffeine,  work, and a recent upper respiratory infection that is STILL hanging around.  Put all this together with the worry of my upcoming scan and the fact that I am prone to depression....and you end up with a terrible mess!  Yep, that's me right now!

The thing is, I KNOW that God is in control!  I really do know this.  But for some reason, this knowledge doesn't always bring me comfort.  And so, I beg you for your prayers.  Thank you!

Wednesday, January 26, 2011

Teaching my son math!

I saw this on another homeschooling blog today and it cracked me up!  THIS is what it sometimes feels like when getting through a math lesson with Nathan!!

Tuesday, January 25, 2011

Stand For Life!

Yesterday, while a lot of people (and friends) in my community where STANDING FOR LIFE in front of the courthouse in downtown Jacksonville, I was at a doctors appointment!  If it hadn't been for the fact that I have been feeling so bad with this virus, I would have been at the courthouse too!

Instead, after my appointment and a visit to the pharmacy for my antibiotic, I took the kids to our parish for a visit to the Adoration Chapel!  We spent about 10 minutes in there praying for all of the babies that have killed since the passing of Roe v. Wade....approximately 53,000,000.....in case you missed it....that's MILLION!  Anyway, our parish does a special STAND FOR LIFE display on the lawn and I wanted the kids to see it.


38 years of death.

The year my precious son was born, 1,312,990 babies were murdered.

The year that my miracle baby, Amelia was born, 1,222,100 babies were murdered.

My baby, my sweet-sweet baby girl.  The year she was born 1,206,200 babies were killed.

It has to stop!

Monday, January 24, 2011

Plainsong


Does anyone remember a blog named "Plainsong"?  I know it was a Typepad blog and it was around for quite awhile.  I ask because I copied and saved a post from 12/26/07 that has stayed with me since the first time I read it.  I found the copy of that post (tattered and stained) and wanted to talk about it here at BeNotAfraid, but I hesitate to do so if I can't give proper credit.  It's funny, I even have the blog bookmarked in my favorites, but there is no longer a working link. 

If anyone knows about this blog, or about the person who authored it (or if YOU are the person who authored it), would you mind either leaving me a comment or emailing me at nancywidener at commcomp dot net!  Thank you!

Sunday, January 23, 2011

Favorite Links!

It's been quite some time since I've done a "Friday Favorites" post, so, I thought it was time that I linked to some really cool spots that I've been keeping to myself. I realize that it isn't Friday (it's actually Sunday), but we can all pretend that the weekend is just beginning...can't we?  These links cover many subject areas such as crafts, homeschooling resources, and cool stuff in general!  Enjoy!  Oh, and these are not in any particular order:


**please note that none of these companies have contacted me for a review or for a paid (or unpaid for that matter) product endorsement. 

Friday, January 21, 2011

F.Y.I.

Have you seen this movie?  If you answered "no" to that question, let me spare you the trouble....bad, bad, bad, bad, bad.

Dan and I know better than to let the kids view a movie that we haven't seen, but we let this one slip because it was animated.  Gone are the days when you could feel safe with a cartoon!  The good news, it only cost us a dollar at Redbox....but the bad news, we watched some of it!  I am simply appalled at what passes for a "family movie" these days!  And what's worse, the USCCB movie review gave this an A-I (General Patronage)!  The description for what the term A-I means is as follows

"Strictly speaking, this does not simply connote films that are “for” children, or films in which they would necessarily be interested. Rather, any film free from significant objectionable content might receive this classification. In the days of the Hollywood Production Code, when it was assumed that almost all mainstream films were acceptable for all audiences, many films with “adult” subject matter -- like 1956’s “Giant” -- received this classification. Nowadays, with even the cleanest adult films usually containing at least instance of foul language, such examples are rare."

This movie starts out with female wolves "strutting their stuff" in front of the male wolves and when the Alpha males struts by, the female wolves call him "hot"!  And that's just for starters!  I know, I know....I'm being too "old fashioned" and "Pollyanna-ish", right?  Perhaps others might not consider this "significantly objectionable content" in the grander scheme of things, but I do!  There are so many other movies that are good and wholesome and edifying!  Why should I have to subject my kids to this nonsense!  I'm so tired of having to be in this defensive mode all the time.

We stopped the movie about 15 minutes into it. They didn't seem that interested anyway.  Nathan did ask if we could finish watching it tomorrow....I said no!  He wanted to know why so Dan and I simply explained that we didn't think it was appropriate for his age group and he seemed OK with that. 

If any of you know of a place to get movie reviews (from a Christian perspective) in addition to the USCCB,  please leave a comment and I will post the links in my sidebar!  Thanks!

Wednesday, January 19, 2011

Wordless Wednesday--almost!

Poor Amelia.....

.....fell asleep with a bucket!  Fever, runny nose, icky tummy.  Has it visited your house yet?

Monday, January 17, 2011

A Day in the Life....My life.

I thought it would be fun to chronicle just one day in our homeschooling life!  None of them are exactly the same so I can't say that it's a "typical" day, but it's definitely unique to us!  Put your seat belts on....

5:55am:  The phone rings...just once.  I open my eyes trying to focus on the clock and I reach for the phone but it's no longer ringing.  My heart is beating a little fast as the ring scared me.  It was probably Dan calling to wake me.  He left for work about an hour ago.  I get up and have my first cup of steaming hot coffee!  Nathan hears me in the kitchen, but I point him back to his bed as it's too early for him to be up!  I NEED my quiet time!  I let the dog out and notice it's raining.  Good!  A perfect day to stay in my PJ's all day!

6:30am:  I decide to make peanut butter smoothies for breakfast!  I figure that everyone will like them as they all like PB!  Recipe:  1 small banana (or 1/2 of a large one), 2 tbsp. peanut butter, 1 tbsp. honey, 1 cup of milk.  Blend.  I added some flax seed and wheat germ for good health's sake.  Nathan gets up at the sound of the blender.  He and I drink the first batch.  I let him make the second batch....this is MATH!

7:00am:  The girls are up.  They wander in the kitchen with bed hair (I think their hair was still a little we from their baths last night).  They taste the PB smoothie, but Olivia would rather have a strawberry one as we bought fresh strawberries at the grocery store yesterday.  Amelia wants waffles.  I shove two frozen waffles in the toaster...and some butter and honey...she's happy.  Nathan volunteers to make the strawberry smoothie.  He decides to concoct his own recipe....this is SCIENCE!  He dices up 1/2 of a fresh apple, slices some strawberries and pours in some milk.  I think this sounds kind of gross, he ignores me.  He didn't measure any of the ingredients...so we don't call it math!

7:30am:  We are all sitting at the kitchen table eating or drinking.  I read several stories from The Children's Book of Virtues by William Bennett. The first story was called "Someone Sees You".  This didn't go over as I had hoped.  During our discussion, Nathan suggested that maybe the man was poor and hungry and so that was why he was stealing the wheat.  I tried to explain that even if we are in need, we still need to follow the Commandments and that God does not want us to steal from others.  Nathan then asked the question, "What if we were poor and starving and you had no money to feed us....would you steal so you could feed your kids?" Sigh.....I move on to another story (yep....dodged that one BIG TIME!).  We also read "Little Sunshine" and the "Honest Disciple".  We had pretty good discussions.  Then, to close, we read the poem "Over in the Meadow" (one of my all time favorites!).  I asked all three of them what they thought it meant.  Nathan was first to pipe in with..."It means you should listen to your mom"!! BINGO!!!  This is going to be a good day!

9:16am:  The kitchen is a mess with sticky honey and banana peels all over the place.  The blender needs to be taken apart in order to wash it properly.  I'm sitting here, typing this post drinking the rest of my cold coffee (that at one time was hot).  The kids have started playing Harry Potter, using pencils as wands and my
Swiffers as brooms....they are playing Quidditch.  Time to rally the troops to start school!

9:30am:  We gather in the living room and say our Morning Offering and we do a decade of the Rosary.  Nathan is mad because Amelia offered all the same intentions he was going say and so he sits on the couch with his arms folded and does not utter one Hail Mary.

10:08am:  Amelia has aced a spelling test on last weeks words (sun, tub, mug, up, cut, him).  She is currently working on the spelling lesson for this week!  Her new words are bed, jet, hen, men, wet and hug!  Nathan is refusing to finish the math lesson he didn't finish last Wednesday!  Dan calls to check on us.  He gives me support and reinforces to Nathan that if he doesn't do his math today, he will regret it later when he gets home.  Olivia is coloring and showing me how well she can stay in the lines.  I hear Nathan just shut his bedroom door.....he won't get any work done today.....sigh.....I swear I wonder if he was switched at birth and they gave me the wrong child!
Olivia and Amelia working.  Notice the empty chair where Nathan should be!

Amelia loves to use Lego's to help with her math.

Olivia practicing fine motor skills - cutting and pasting along with word associations.

10:30am:  Nathan hasn't done a thing this morning!  Currently, he is sitting at the table, questioning me as to why he has to do math.  Incidentally, his math usually consists of 27 problems.  He got to #12 on his lesson from last Wednesday.  His assignment for the morning was to complete the remaining 15 problems from last week. 

10:35am:  He is still sitting at the table with his arms crossed.  Clear defiance.  I'm ignoring him for now as Amelia and Olivia are working.  Olivia just finished letter practice for the letter B!  She did a great job.  Amelia has begun her math lesson, however, she is now crying because Nathan just made fun of her because she has to do math too.  I've sent him to his room because I don't want his misbehavior to disrupt the rest of the house any more than it already has.

10:42am:  I hear him in his room playing with his toys.  I'm not sure whether or not I should confront him.  Against my better judgement, I go in there.  I tell him to hand me all the BayBlades.  He thinks he's funny by handing me pencils and dirty socks. I've had it.  I'm calm, but I've had it!  I tell him he needs to pack his stuff and move somewhere else.  I'm not ashamed to admit that I probably blew it here, but, day after day, week after week, for almost 5 months of this...I'm  little tired of it.  I don't want to see him for the rest of the day.

10:48am:  The girls are asking for a snack.  Cheese and crackers with some orange juice!

10:57am:  Nathan comes out of his room to argue with me.  He tells me it's my fault that all this has happened.  He says we should just ask Grandma and Grandpa for the money to pay for him to go back to Assumption.  It's all my fault that we are homeschooling.  He wants to go back to school.  I tell him that I agree he should go back to school but I explain that we can NOT afford Catholic School and his only other option is the public school around the corner.  He says he will NOT go to a public school.  He's back in his room, pouting.  Today is Monday and this is his Monday routine.  He will stew a little longer in his room.  Then, sometime after lunch, he will come to his senses and start working.  Sigh.  This is my life.
Meanwhile, Olivia has finished her schoolwork for the day.  We will read together after I've finished the morning dishes.  It will take me longer today, the blender is a mess!

11:28am:  He's now sitting at the kitchen table doing his math.  He wants me to cut his bangs when he's done with school work.  He wants to know what we're having for dinner.  It's interesting to me that he can blow up one minute, and the next, he's the responsible 10 year old that takes care of his family while dad is at work.  Olivia found a spider in the kitchen and screamed!  Nathan came to the rescue, picked up the spider and gently placed it outside.  He then turned to the rest of us and said, "Please, just let me do my math".

11:41am:  He just finished the math lesson!  Amazing!  He spent 3 hours fighting me for what took him exactly 13 minutes to finish!

12:00pm:  Nathan finished his grammar lesson and is now taking a break!  Apparently, doing 30 minutes of school work has really tuckered him out!  I'm thinking about what to make for lunch.  Probably salami and cheese sandwiches and some popcorn.

12:18pm:  Amelia just finished her math lesson!  The kids are playing and I'm making lunch.  I'm trying to decide if we are done for today.  I think we will do some Faith & Life and call it a day.  I have a load of laundry to fold, a bathroom to clean and a bed to change.  Tomorrow will be better, Tuesday's always are.

12:57pm:  Eating lunch and watching an episode of Mythbusters....would that be considered science?  Later, we will watch a special on Martin Luther King, Jr. and possibly take a nap!

Well, there you have it - a day in the life of our homeschool.  Even with Nathan's morning outburst, we had a good day.  We accomplished a reasonable amount of learning and we got in almost every subject.  We'll tackle handwriting and geography tomorrow with a field trip to the School Aids store for their wonderful laminating machine!

I would love it if some of the other homeschoolers that read my blog would share "A Day in the Life"  in their family homeschool!!  Please let me know if you post about it!

Saturday, January 15, 2011

Birthday trip, Part One-The Wizarding World of Harry Potter!

This year, Santa Claus brought the entire family annual passes to Universal Orlando!  This was a real surprise as we would not have been able to afford this on our own!  If you live in Florida, visiting the theme parks in Orlando is just one of the things you do. The admission prices are ridiculously expensive even with the Florida Resident discount.  The annual passes are a much better deal, especially if you live within driving distance.  I have noticed though, that the older I get, the less impressed I am with this sort of thing!  On the other hand, this is not the case with my kids!  Nathan has been begging us for several years but we wanted to wait until the kids were old enough to be able to enjoy it.  They are definitely at that age NOW!

We got up really early Thursday morning and drove down to Orlando (about a 2.5 hour drive).  We stopped along the way for breakfast.  I anticipated it being much warmer once we got down there, but it was freezing!  I believe it was in the low 40's for most of the day! We layered our clothing pretty well and bundled up! 

Let me start off by talking about the parking situation.  It's $15 for regular parking and $20 for preferred.  We opted for the regular because we thought we could find something else better to do with that extra $5....I mean, how bad could it be, right?  Well, what they don't tell you in any of the commercials, brochures or newspaper ads is that it's about a mile from where you park your car to the entrance to either of the two parks (Islands of Adventure or Universal Studios)!  All I can say is THANK GOD for moving sidewalks!
Warning:  If you decide to use the moving sidewalks...STAY TO THE RIGHT!  Otherwise, you will get mowed over by people who are in a HURRY to get to wherever it is they are going!

Once you are beyond the "getting out of the parking" area, you come upon something called City Walk!  This is where you find lots of restaurants (including famous ones like Bubba Gumps, The Hard Rock and Emeril's), bars, nightclubs, stores and a movie theater.  Visually, it's very over stimulating. Since it was early in the morning...nothing was opened and we moved right through this pretty quickly.

At this point, you come to a "Y"....to the left is Islands of Adventure and to the right is Universal Studios.  Incidentally, I had no idea that these two parks are in NO WAY associated with Disney!  Truthfully, I thought the entire city of Orlando was owned by Disney...but I was wrong!  Apparently, they are competitors in the movie making business as well as the theme park business. MGM Studios is the equivalent for Disney.  But I digress.

On Thursday, we opted for the Island of Adventure side as this is where the Wizarding World of Harry Potter lives.  Since we got there early, we were thinking that it would be best if we went to see the HP stuff first so we could beat the crowds.  Guess what?  Thousands of other people had the same idea!  I must say though, they did an awesome job with the construction of Hogwarts and Hogsmeade.  Here are a few photos....


This is the view when you first enter Islands of Adventure!  Quite impressive!

Entering Hogsmeade Village

It was actually a good thing that the weather was cold!

Hogwarts Express




Nathan


Dan in front of the Three Broomsticks Restaurant

Inside Hogwarts where the pictures come alive!

I would say that probably 80% of the visitors in the Wizarding World of Harry Potter were wearing H.P. scarves.  They were selling scarves from Gryfindor, Slytherin, Ravenclaw, and Hufflepuff.  Each were $34.95!  Can you believe that?  People PAID that much for a scarf!  Nathan really wanted a wand from Ollivander's, but they wanted $29.95 for them and I told him OVER MY DEAD BODY!  Besides, the line to get into Ollivander's was over 2 hours long!

We tried a Butterbeer and visited Zonko's and Honeydukes!  We attempted to get into some of the other stores in Hogsmeade but the stores are very small and they were just too many people inside!  The butterbeer wasn't that great.  It reminded me of root beer only much, much sweeter....kind of butterscotchy!

As far as the rides go....the girls weren't tall enough to ride Harry Potter and the Forbidden Journey and although he won't admit it, Nathan was too scared.  As always the line was fairly long and we had to decide if we wanted to wait or not, we opted to "come back later" and then never did.  But, the good news is that we have the annual passes and will come down again soon for the day.  There was no pressure for us to see and do everything to get our money's worth. 

All in all, I was very happy with our Harry Potter experience!  I look forward to our next visit when we can explore more of Hogsmeade.

Stay tuned for Birthday Trip-Part Two!

Tuesday, January 11, 2011

What I've learned about homeschooling!

I need a vacation!  You know the kind...the CALGON TAKE ME AWAY kind!  I am very rarely away from my family, because frankly, I don't like it!  On the few occasions when I've been somewhere without them, I usually spend a good bit of time thinking of, worrying about, and wishing I was with them.  Still, there are times when I need SOME SPACE!  Do you ever feel like that with your family?

Our first few months of homeschooling have been, well, challenging to say the least.  All of the areas that I worried about have turned out to be non issues.  The one thing that I worried about the least, has turned out to be the "bite-me-in-the-butt" issue that gives me nightmares!

Even with only four and a half months of homeschooling under my belt, I've managed to learn a few things...painful as they've been:

1.  The grass is rarely greener!  Part of me honestly thought that homeschooling was going to instantly transform my kids into treating their siblings with love and compassion....into the quiet, spiritually introverted children that I just knew God had created them to be....and into the most angelic, halo wearing, obedient children I had ever seen!  Where did I get that notion in the first place???  Honestly, I expected this miraculous transformation to happen over night!  I think I have a screw loose someplace!  I have since been whipped into submission learned understood come to humbly realize that this doesn't happen right away.  As a matter of fact, it takes years!  Even longer for those of us who have experienced traditional schools.  My kids have to learn how to be with each other 24/7 just like I have to learn how to be with them.  They are who they are...wonderfully inquisitive, incessantly energetic, compassionate, loving, eager to learn sponges!  Why would I want them any other way??

2.  Be flexible!  I anticipated this one to a certain degree.  However, I was not prepared for just how OFTEN I would need to be flexible!  Try...EVERYDAY!  I knew I would need to be willing to change up the schedule some.  If you know me, you know that my life is full of wrenches ready and waiting to be thrown at my day!  I'm pretty good at adapting to that, I swear!  I just wasn't ready for the MOOD CHANGES (including my own) that would require manipulating the schedule!  Why did none of my homeschooling friends tell me about this one?  I wasn't aware that even the slightest mention of starting a math lesson could cause Mt. Vesuvius to erupt and therefore causing the rest of the house.....to cry!  Sigh!

3.  Do not, I repeat, do NOT compare yourself to other homeschoolers!  Too late!  Been there done that!  Here's a question for you.....If I was going to compare myself to other homeschoolers.....WHY OH WHY did I choose homeschooling families that have been at this soooo much longer that I have??  These other families had to learn all the same lessons that I'm learning, it's just that they learned them eons ago and can now look at me and say..."Oh yes, I remember when....."!  The good news is that THEY SURVIVED and I will too.  I think.  I hope.  I pray.

4.  I'm so glad my kids are home!  Even with all the hard knocks I've come to realize over the last few months, I wouldn't change it (yet)!  Although I'm pretty much removed from all the goings on at our parish school, every now and then I get tidbit of information about things going on (bullying issues, teacher issues, cliques and such) that I am so thankful I don't have to deal with anymore!  Don't get me wrong, I LOVE our parish school, I really do!  I think they do a wonderful job of instilling Catholic values and academics into the students!  I just don't like all the peripheral crap that goes on!  It seems so burdensome and unnecessary.  It can get to a point where you spend too much time dealing with all of that and less time on actual learning.

5.  God's grace is endless!  The Catechism of the Catholic Church puts it this way:  (2221) "....The role of parents in education is of such importance that it is almost impossible to provide an adequate substitute.  The right and the duty of parents to educate their children are primordial and inalienable."   (2223) "Parents have the first responsibility for the education of their children."  (2224) ".....Parents should teach children to avoid the compromising and degrading influences which threaten human societies."  (2225) "....Parents should initiate their children at an early age into the mysteries of the faith of which they are the "first heralds" for their children."  (2226) "Education in the faith by the parents should begin in the child's earliest years.  This already happens when family members help one another to grow in faith by the witness of a Christian life in keeping with the Gospel.  Family catechisms precedes, accompanies, and enriches other forms of instruction in the faith.  Parents have the mission of teaching their children to pray and to discover their vocation as children of God."  Clearly, the education of my kids is extremely important to God.  But how can I do this?  What if I fail?  What if I blow it so bad that someday my kids do the unthinkable....leave the Church?  What if one of my kids ends up taking a gun to a U.S. congresswoman's outdoor meeting at the parking lot of a grocery store and starts shooting?  What if...what if....what if?  The thing is, God doesn't ask me to attempt any of this alone.  These are HIS children, not mine.  He's entrusted HIS children to me while they are here on this earth...but they BELONG to Him!  He would never ask me to do something that He has not first equipped me to do.  He will give me what I need WHEN I NEED IT!  Not one second sooner!  His grace, love and compassion are infinite. 

I can do this homeschooling thing!  I CAN!  God is with me every step of the way!  It is His desire that Dan and I be their educators.  He will help us do this.  It might be hard...it might be tiring....it might even give me a twitch on some days, but I know that I know that I know, it's what we've been called to do!

Incidentally, Santa Claus brought us a family Christmas present this year (Santa sent it via my Uncle in CA!)....annual passes to Universal Orlando/Islands of Adventure!  Thursday morning, my 46th birthday, we will be heading down to Orlando for our first visit to the likes of The Wizarding World of Harry Potter , The Amazing Adventures of Spider-Man and, The Cat in the Hat!  I'm hoping for no crowds since this is technically the "off season"!  This is a benefit of homeschooling....getting to take off on a family outing during the week!

So much for my Calgon vacation!

Friday, January 7, 2011

Mother and Father are OUT!! (***warning: non child friendly post!)

It seems that the United States government (the passport office, anyway) has decided that it is no longer correct to refer to the 2 (male and female!) human beings that cooperated with God to bring you into existence, as "mother" and "father".  Unfortunately, if you have children and are applying for a U.S. passport, you will now be referred to as "Parent 1" and Parent 2".  This is according to the Family Equality Council (whatever THAT is)!

You can click HERE to read the story for yourself, if you so dare.

A statement on the State Department website noted:  "These improvements are being made to provide a gender neutral description of a child's parents and in recognition of different types of families".

I have a few questions though......would I be considered "parent 1" or "parent 2" and does this mean you could feasibly have "parent 3" or "parent 4" or more?  How about "mommy 1" and "mommy 2" or "daddy 1" and "daddy 2"?  Isn't that even MORE politically correct? 

What is with this "gender neutral" stuff?  The world is trying to go neutral!  Educational neutrality is when you can't use a RED pen to correct a student's work because it might make them feel bad.  Athletic neutrality is when you no longer keep score in school sports because you don't want anyone to LOSE and when you can no longer play dodge ball because everyone picks on the weakest one inside the circle.  Sigh!

This is all really getting to me these days.  If it's not one thing, it's another.  I'm so tired of it all.  Times are getting tough and I truly feel sorry for my children and their children...and so on for all of this that they will have to endure.

Today, on my Unto The Hills desk calendar by Billy Graham:

     "Pray without ceasing.  In every thing give thanks:  for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you."  1 Thess.5:17-18
                "Praying unlocks the doors of heaven and releases the power of God.  God's answers are
                 always right and good and best.  Whether prayer changes our situation or not, one thing
                 is certain:  Prayer will change us!"

Thursday, January 6, 2011

I was tagged!!

I was tagged for this meme by two very lovely young ladies....Mary and Grace from Two Sisters ~ Best Friends!  Here you go....

1.) Did you have more fun at you're New Year's Eve party for 2010 or 2011?


     I would have to say 2011!  We had a family "mocktail" party with lots of great food and a really good movie called "Second Hand Lions"!  If I remember correctly, we SLEPT through 2010!!

2.) Do you have a lot of big plans for 2011?

     Yes, spending more QUALITY family time together!  Today is January 6th and I think we've gotten off to a really good start!

3.) Do you think 2010 or 2011 is easier to write at the head of your school paper?

      I would have to say 2010, but only because I've had lots of practice writing it.

4.) Do you consider 2010 as a double digit year? (Even if it is mathematically NOT....do you personally consider it as one?)

      No.

5.) What's 1 big thing you are looking forward to doing/getting/proving/accomplishing/etc... in the year 2011?

   Getting my 4th grade son through his Saxon 5/4 math book without having to tie him to the chair!

6.) Do you want the year to change to 2011? (Not that you have a choice....but would you rather it stay 2010?)

      No, I'm already very pleased with 2011!

7.) Did you stay up until 12:00 PM on "New Years Eve"....Or couldn't you make it?


      I did fall asleep for a few minutes right about 11:30pm....but I woke up in time! 

8.) Do you think the world will end in 2012?!!?

        NO!

9.) Did you like your birthday better in 2010, or can you not wait until your birthday in 2011?

      I'll let you know in one week!

10.) Do you LIKE or DISLIKE school.?

       I LOVE school!  Learning is fun...even at my age!

11.) Do you like boots, tennis shoes, heels,or flats best???

      Slippers!  I know that wasn't one of the choices...but they are my favorite!

12.) Do you have any special plans for 2011?

      See answer to #2. 

13.) .Do you like winter or spring better??

     Winter!

14.) Favorite ice cream?

      Chocolate!

17.) Do you think you would like it better homeschooling or do you enjoy public school?

      I prefer homeschooling over public school!

18.) Whats your favorite subject in school?

    I enjoy doing art and science with my kids!

If you are reading this, consider yourself tagged!  Make sure to visit Two Sisters ~ Best Friends to read their responses!

BIG THANKS to Mary & Grace for this fun meme!!

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

44 reported DEATHS!

WARNING:  If you continue reading, you will be subject to my soap box!


Commercials, magazine ads, billboards, radio spots......all in a ploy to get young girls (as young as NINE) "vaccinated" against a disease that is spread through sexual contact.....and what do we have to show for it......lies, lies and more lies...as well as 44 reported deaths, 15,037 adverse reactions (including Guilliane Barre, lupus, seizures, paralysis, blood clots, brain inflammation and many others), NO efficacy trials in girls under the age of 15, and the knowledge that Gardasil has done absolutely NOTHING to protect the health of young American women.

Click here for the DISGUSTING STORY!

You would not believe the heated discussions I was involved in when this vaccine first came out!  However, I was seen as the "crazy Catholic" lady that wanted every woman to either get cervical cancer and die or become pregnant so that we can further the agenda of Catholics in the world!  No!  I'm not kidding!  People actually implied that I had a secret wish for young women to get cancer because I was against this vaccine!  Seriously!

These very same people have NO PROBLEM taking oral contraception that is KNOWN to increase the risk for breast and CERVICAL cancer (the non sexual contact kind) as well as things like....headaches, dizziness, nausea, lightheadedness, bloating, stomach upset, depression, groin & calf pain, chest pain, lumpy breasts, weakness, tingling in the arms and legs, shortness of breath, yellowing of the eyes and skin!  The list goes on and on!

Would it be wrong just to simply say...I told you so?

Monday, January 3, 2011

Dinner conversation....

Me:  As soon as I'm done clearing the table I'm going to start a bath for you girls, Ok?

Amelia:  A bath?  Why can't I have a shower?

Me:  Well, I guess because you always have a bath.

Amelia:  But mom, when I take a bath all I do is sit in my own wet dirt!

Me:  True enough!

Sunday, January 2, 2011

Welcome, 2011!

Happy New Year!  Is it just me or did this year go by really, really fast?  Honestly, I don't feel ready for it to be January 2nd.  I've already spent about 2 hours preparing for school to start tomorrow morning!   I printed off a really nice prayer in honor of The Most Holy Name of Jesus which is celebrated tomorrow.  We'll pray the prayer and then use it for some copy work.....I thought it would be good to use as a "warm up" to get them back in the swing of things.

We got a call from one of the basketball coaches at our parish school tonight.  Apparently, they are one kid short for one of the teams and he wanted to know if Nathan would be interested in playing.  We made the decision to go ahead and say yes, even though he just finished up with soccer.  One of the reasons is that we really LOVE this coach and I was so touched that he wanted Nathan on his team!  The practices are reasonable...just once a week and the games are all on Saturdays. 

During this Christmas break, I've learned that two of my elementary school classmates have been diagnosed with cancer.  One with testicular cancer and another with stage 4 Melanoma (brain tumor).  When does this ever end?  It seems that every time I turn around, I hear of someone else who has been stricken with this disease.  It's heart wrenching!   In addition to all of that, my nephew is back in the hospital again.  He is suffering with ulcerative colitis/Crohns disease.  I can't even keep count of how many flare ups he's had in the last year.  I would say that this is at least his 4th hospitalization in the past 12 months!  Please keep him in your prayers. 

There is also another very close family member that is suffering with fibromyalgia.  Recently, her doctors have decided to do some additional testing as her symptoms seem to be more indicative of M.S.  She will undergo a spinal tap sometime in the next 2 weeks.  Apparently this will be the deciding factor in her diagnosis.  I also ask that you would keep her in your prayers as well!

We managed to get all of our Christmas decorations down and put away this afternoon.  This was bittersweet for me.  I have a love/hate relationship with holiday decorations!  The living room looks so bare now!  However, if 2011 is anything like 2010, Christmas will be here again before we know it!

Well, that's my quick update for now.   It shouldn't be too long before I'm back into the routine again.

What's been going on in your neck of the woods?